As far as my Scene wardrobe, I don't think I dress as "harsh" as some other Dommes do, I don't particularly like latex, I prefer leather and more feminine looking things. I usually wear my leather thigh high boots or my black heels and black stockings and either a leather dress or leather skirt with something lacy..that is more my style and what I am comfortable Domming in. I do not try to pretend to be someone I am not, I am just ME, the person I am comfortable with being. I am not a sadist, I am however sadistic when I choose to be or there is a need to be. I only teach people who are consenting adults. I am not into infantilism, watersports, bestiality, child pornography, or any illegal actives - and of course, there is absolutely no sexual contact at all at My Den. Whether you are an experienced submissive or just tasting dominance for the first time, I can take you to new heights you may never have imagined before. I enjoy many aspects of B&D, spanking, flogging, hot wax and ice play, clothespins and clamps, different forms of humiliation, electrical stimulation play (tens unit), fantasy role play, cross dressing... there is so much to explore with a submissive! | |
I expect TOTAL respect and obedience from submissives, and acknowlegement that the time they spend with me, is My way or the highway! I want them to keep in mind they come to me for training, I do not seek them out. I call what I do "fantasy facilitation" rather than just strict Domination in that I help my clients realize and play out their fantasies in a safe enviornment. I'm always in control of the whole session, but it stems from what their fantasies and interests are rather than forcing only what I like upon them whether they like it or not. A recent client of mine told me he had been to a Mistress who held a knife to his testicles and threatened to cut them off when he was restrained. That is not what I am about. I want my clients to feel safe and comfortable with me, but I do demand and expect total respect and obedience. I always use safewords and respect limits. I may push limits to expand and enrich a submissive's experience and bring him to new thresholds and levels, but only beginning at a submissive's level that he feels safe and comfortable with. While I enjoy the power and control of Dominating considerably, I enjoy myself a lot more during a session if the submissive is excited by and enjoying what he is learning and experiencing as well. | |
I would say I am as empathic as I am cruel and demanding. I will
give a person a rest if I think they are in need of one, but I may be strict
and callous and will push someone to his ultimate limit. I don't clockwatch
and after a session, I do enjoy to just sit and talk to the person afterwards
if there is something that they would like to know more about or just want
to get to know me better. If there is anything that you would like to know
about me, just ASK.
I am currently in the process of expanding and will be relocating to a better and bigger location that will have several rooms to suit different fetishes. I have also recently welcomed Mistress Carmel, Mistress Darla, and Miss Desirae as newly added members of my Den. All are available for sessions and for 2 Mistress sessions with me. My submissive, Karen, is available as a submissive or as a switch. |
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Speaking of Karen, for those who have voyeuristic interests or for someone who just likes to see a female being tormented, I do sessions where I scene with Karen. She can be very exhibitionistic and says that people watching her submit to Me can be very exciting and stimulating to her. We've done several shows at parties and this seems to be of high interest to many. My goal with my expansion is to provide an atmosphere that is completely safe, sane and discreet for submissives while providing a lot of variety suitable to many fetishes in a world of ultimate Domination at My Den. |