Mistress Xandria
I am a lifestyle sm/bd/ds/fetish enthusiast, and have been exploring the vast realm of sensuality as far back as I can remember. My father gave me some advice as a child which I have adhered to during my journey into the realm of kink -- the advice being to try everything twice. While I am not a Professional Dom, I do enjoy playing with a small group of individuals and attending Scene events where I love to participate in a variety of Play.
More than this, however, I am continually striving to channel the vanilla crowd towards acceptance and further enhance Scene Players by way of introducing them to new forms of Play. I only feel it is fair since I've had numerous wonderful mentors in the way of Scene Play, and have learned much from them, and am therefore compelled to share what I have learned. I by no means profess knowledge of even half of all there is to learn about Play, but I believe that we cannot grow unless we share and have a willingness to learn. It is so important that newcomers to the Scene understand that Play is all about exploring the joys of the flesh and mind in an exuberant manner. Fantasy can be transformed to reality, provided it is done so safely, sanely and consensually.
One of the methods I have utilized to share the experiences of myself and others has been via my 'zine, Redemption. I published Redemption for four years and produced 21 issues in total before its untimely demise. All back issues are still available and further information can be found on my Redemption/Mistress Xandria web site. I continue to write articles for other fetish publications and expand my web site to include new material as time permits.

I also established a web cam entitled "XanCam", wherein I provide an Internet show once per week for about an hour. XanCam allows viewers to have a realistic peek into my life as I truly live it. Individuals may find some shows boring and others exciting. What I do promise is something different each time. I have displayed myself: building lego, cooking, in a flogging play session, having a bath, preparing for a fetish event, bathing my cat, conducting a Wiccan ceremony and more. Each show is accompanied by a commentary written by myself, explaining in more detail what transpired or will transpire during a show (i.e. for my flogging show, I explained the concept of safe, sane and consensual CP play to my vanilla audience). I have intentions of revealing more Play via my web cam, along with an appropriately written commentary -- all in good time.

I also provide postal training for those who are interested in either real life guidance or written fantasy sessions. If I had to describe myself, I would say that I am a loving Dominant who cares about the well-being of her submissives. I can be both gentle and fierce, depending on the individual I play with. I am an insatiable flirt and love to tease and tantalize with my finger-nails and teeth.

A few of my favourite Play activities are: flogging & CP, play piercing, hot wax, latex, corsetry, ice & abrasion, costumes, nipple play, and bondage. A few of my other favourite things are: Lego, felines, all things gothic, music, incense, studying ancient civilizations and world religions, art and vampires.

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